As many of you have probably noticed, I am single. I have been single for a long time. While I have had many little things go on with people in the past couple years of my life, I haven’t been in a legitimate relationship for a long time, if I have been in one at all. Either way, every one of those “relationships” has ended in complete and utter failure, but I’ve come to realize why.

Every relationship I’ve had up until recently i have jumped right into. I never gave myself time to decide whether the feelings I have for someone are true or not, which ends in disaster. Since my last “relationship” I have stopped jumping into things and have given myself time to think about my feelings for those I have interests in.

Unfortunately, this isn’t the only problem I face. Even after I realize the feelings I have for someone may hold the potential to create a long term relationship with that person , that other person must feel the same way about me.

While I realize that there are people who would want to date me, I don’t want to settle. I’m not trying to sound cocky by saying that either, it’s just that I know there are a few people out there who like me in a way I don’t like them. For a lot of us, there are people like that in our lives, we simply don’t realize it. The thing about relationships is that it’s easy to find one, but not to find one that matters.That’s something that applies to everybody.

Even if you there is someone in your life that you want that you will never get over and you believe you’d be settling if you went for anybody else, just wait a while. Someone will come along and show you that there are people who can win you over even more than that one person, you just need to hope that you’ll be able to find one who will hold the same feelings for you.

I know there are a lot of people in this situation who would jump right into a relationship at the first chance they got, but please think about it thoroughly before you do, because if you rush it someone could end up getting hurt in the end.

I’m apologize for shoving my poorly written words of advice onto your dash, it’s 9:42 AM, and I have yet to sleep. My mood has been up and down all night and i was just over thinking as usual.